Why autism-friendly events are important

Going out with my kids is usually a little challenging, but we are getting better at it.  It's not so long ago that the idea of going out on my own with our three kids meant I'd stay inside instead.  After all the kids are fine in the house and it's only later they struggle after being in all day.

Anthony can appear a bit odd to people with the way he talks and jumps about but the main issue is that David doesn't understand some of the basic safety rules about going outside our family home. Up until recently he didn’t understand about holding hands – indeed he completed resisted it. Every road, car, doorway was a dangerous exit point.

More than not understanding about safety, he still doesn’t understand about how to act around other people in public. He doesn’t know why people don’t like it when he shouts out or stands up in the cinema or jumps up and down by his chair in a restaurant. And even if he did realise, there is no way he could stop.  It's part of balancing his sensory system that means David needs to do this.  So, screaming and unpacking toys in supermarkets makes perfect sense to David.

There are several autism friendly services - including the autism friendly cinema screenings via Dimensions that I love. Many cinemas across the UK show a film each month under ‘autism-friendly’ conditions. The lights are on a little so it’s easier to see, the volume is down a bit so it’s not such an impact on the senses. Generally people are more relaxed about what others are doing, more understanding. I think there are many people and kids who may benefit from this type of relaxed screening - not just those with the particular diagnosis of autism.

We can take David to these showings which is great because both his brother and sister love movies and the experience of going to the cinema.

There are approximately 1 in 100 people who are autistic. At my local cinema there is over 120 showings of movies just weekend – but there is only one autism friendly screening each month in the same cinema.

Nearly 11,000 businesses across the UK took part 'Autism Hour' last year. This initiative from the National Autistic Society (NAS) saw lights dimmed, background music reduced, and staff gain an understanding of autism.   This year's Autism Hour is just over two weeks away.  I'm delighted that autism awareness and acceptance is growing in our country, but then it's often just one hour of one day.

You might think given my ‘only one hour’ and ‘only one screening’ comments that I’m disheartened.

Perhaps a bit true, but overall, I'd disagree.

Sure, I'd absolutely love more, but every single one of these events increases the chance that my children may end up being able to function in society. And I'm glad for it.

This weekend, Horrid Henry is an autism-friendly screening at Vue cinema's across the country. Some people may see this screenings advertised and may perhaps get a small clue into what helps my kids.   Some people may see kids like mine in the cinema, jumping while standing in the queue for snacks or tickets, and be a little more aware.

In two weeks, Autism Hour, across shops and businesses may highlight the idea to others.  Indeed, many businesses who tried the single Autism Hour last year have decided to initiate them on a regular basis.  The Entertainer for example run one every Saturday morning. All these events might just have an overall impact that means society, slowly, becomes more accessible for them too.

In meantime, we'll be taking advantage of the autism-friendly things we can get to and use.  And fingers crossed we'll get to see more popping up.

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