Staying sane in the run up to Christmas

Half term is over - the countdown has begun.  Anthony announced this week - it's seven weeks till Christmas.  And like every year, I'm not ready.  But I've got some ideas to help me.

There's always lots to do and honestly every year it just happens - which is great but a bit daunting. As with many families who have autistic kids there's a lot of planning and preparation that goes into Christmas.  It's all too easy for our boys to become overwhelmed with everything that's going on. I try to be fairly relaxed about it and go with whatever they need but it's always going to be a busy time.

There's all the present buying, the wrapping, secret stashing, the shopping and cooking for Christmas dinner whilst making sure we have something David will eat too.  And the list goes on.  This year I've a few tricks up my sleeve and I'm sharing one with you in a giveaway.

1. Video from Santa
What's that got to do with making my life easier?  Ahh, well, the good people at PNP, that's the Portable North Pole, send my kids their own video from Father Christmas which includes a task for them. That's right, Santa himself tells my kids to be good and help their siblings and even help me during the run-up till Christmas.

What better way to make my life easier than focusing my kids on being good.  David's still pre verbal and won't really understand a video call from Santa, but the other two definitely do.  Two out of three kids helping or trying to be extra good ain't bad and if they aren't annoying David too then this can make the world of difference to me.

2. Slipper shoes
Over the next six weeks and particularly in the last run up to the big day, I'll be in and out of the house like next doors cat with delivery boxes and shopping.  I'll fill goodness knows how many bin bags preparing dinner and snacks and put what must be tonnes of packing into recycling boxes.

Half of this will need to be done after the kids have gone to bed.  I'll be in and out of the loft looking for decorations various and that tree ornament that 'we always have.'  Then there's the trudging back into the loft or garage to hide various gifts.

The key to the above - a fantastic pair of bootie slipper shoes like these from Hunkemoller.  A sole along the bottom means you nip outside to the bin as often as you need and not get them wet underneath.  They keep you warm and safe in the loft and cosy when finally sitting down to wrap those gifts.

3.  Keep everyone comfortable
If our boys are to have a good day we try and help them stay relaxed. Part of them being comfortable is preparing them for the day.  Letting them know what's going to happen by talking about what's going on in the run-up to Christmas. Sometimes in the past we've used visuals, particularly with David as he's non-verbal.  But the boys have great memories and they've now got a general understanding of what's happening.

We keep Christmas limited to just a few rooms in the house.  The lounge has the tree, a cue for them that Christmas is coming, and the kitchen is where we have our Christmas dinner.  Comfortable dining chairs keep everyone happy and cope with both the fidgeting boys and our more elder relatives too.

The dining table is extended, giving us all the space we need, even if we have having turkey and David is having chicken nuggets.  Most of the house is undecorated so that the boys always have somewhere 'normal' to go and chill out.  David quite likes to sit on the stairs to get away from it all when he needs to.   If they are all less stressed, then so am I.

4.  My ultimate tip - Alexa
We've got an Echo Dot in the kitchen.  When we first got it I didn't think I'd use it much.  I was wrong. The Echo Dot is voice-controlled disc that uses Amazon's Alexa to play music, control smart home devices, provide information, read the news, set alarms etc. Here's a couple of festive phrases I've been practising.

• Alexa set first timer for 3 1/2 hours (for the turkey on Christmas day), then I'll set several other timers for everything else in line. I honestly don't know how anything got cooked for the right length of time before I had Alexa.
• Alexa order... well who knows.. because I'll need to order a last minute gift from Amazon without a doubt
• Alexa, play Michael Buble (for me to do a dance).  Alexa, play Can't Stop the Feeling from Trolls (for me and the kids to dance together).
• Alexa, how cold is it today (run and change the heating for the day and then because Anthony wants to know..) Alexa, how cold is it in Russia?
• Alexa, where is Father Christmas?

And that's just a starter.  I've also found if the kids have lots of questions and I'm swamped, they can talk directly to Alexa for a while. I know, terrible mother.  But please don't let that put you off.   Alexa is brilliant for my autistic kids.

Anthony in particular loves lists and Alexa is a great help when it comes to interesting facts and figures for him as all I end up doing is googling the answers anyway.   She is a databank of information and will answer him over and over again no matter how often he asks.  And keeping Anthony calm helps keep me calm.  I love having Alexa around to help so much, I'm giving one away.

WIN YOUR OWN ALEXA ECHO DOT FOR CHRISTMAS

If you'd like to win your own Alexa on an Echo Dot - please take part in my giveaway.  

It's not sponsored, I just love having an Alexa so much I'm willing to share 

her with you - just in time for Christmas.  Enter below.

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Conditions: UK  Residents only. Entrants must be aged over 18.  Entry is via Rafflecopter.  Entries can be made up until midnight on the1st December 2017.  One winner will be chosen from all the entries at random the day after closing.  The winner will be contacted within two days of the closing date and have one week to respond.  The Prize is one Echo Dot as pictured in top photo.  No cash alternative. 

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I was sent a pair of Hunkemoller slippers for purposes of review.  

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